Comments on: Is there any hope for a Cancer to be less manipulative? I am Cancer. Help, I only manipulate b/c I’m afraid… http://www.thewordishope.com/is-there-any-hope-for-a-cancer-to-be-less-manipulative-i-am-cancer-help-i-only-manipulate-bc-im-afraid/ Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:42:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Annietska http://www.thewordishope.com/is-there-any-hope-for-a-cancer-to-be-less-manipulative-i-am-cancer-help-i-only-manipulate-bc-im-afraid/comment-page-1/#comment-1733 Annietska Sat, 28 Nov 2009 14:18:34 +0000 http://www.thewordishope.com/is-there-any-hope-for-a-cancer-to-be-less-manipulative-i-am-cancer-help-i-only-manipulate-bc-im-afraid/#comment-1733 In my opinion, you shouldn't rely on zodiacs. I'm a cancer too. I did that once and it only brought me sadness, because I saw a description of me that was not me. I'm a strong character and have strong ideas of my own but I'm rather shy when being in large groups pf people. Don't rely on the model told in your zodiac, because each cancer is different, for example, the only thing that's right about me is that I'm a shy, family person, artistic and I tend to dream a lot. All other stuff are simply not me! About what you said, I think all of us have the need to be loved and accepted, even the toughest person on earth cannot escape that. Of course, when I was little I used to have that need more than I do today, but nowadays I simply walk my own road and do nothing less than try to be better everyday. This is my cause. You need to stop thinking you are manipulative, if you have the love and support of your parents that is enough. All others will come with time if you're yourself. Don't try too hard because others will notice that you are not you and won't accept you for what you wanna be. Just take it easy. One very useful thing you can start doing is to have a cause for which to fight for. This will draw all your attention to and will bring people close to you. For me, if people are too different from me then I probably won't be accepted, but those having the same ideals as me love and respect me, as I love and respect them too. Stop thinking like that, to be accepted IS NOT your No1 concern, especially those zodiacs can totally transform you to a different person if you believe in their readings. I don't think you're like that at all. Just celect a cause and become what you are if you're not already it, don't follow what those readings say you have to be. Find your own path in life. COME ON, THE STARS CANNOT DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY! GO OUT THERE AND PROVE THEM WRONG!!! Best of luck :) In my opinion, you shouldn’t rely on zodiacs. I’m a cancer too. I did that once and it only brought me sadness, because I saw a description of me that was not me. I’m a strong character and have strong ideas of my own but I’m rather shy when being in large groups pf people. Don’t rely on the model told in your zodiac, because each cancer is different, for example, the only thing that’s right about me is that I’m a shy, family person, artistic and I tend to dream a lot. All other stuff are simply not me!

About what you said, I think all of us have the need to be loved and accepted, even the toughest person on earth cannot escape that. Of course, when I was little I used to have that need more than I do today, but nowadays I simply walk my own road and do nothing less than try to be better everyday. This is my cause. You need to stop thinking you are manipulative, if you have the love and support of your parents that is enough. All others will come with time if you’re yourself. Don’t try too hard because others will notice that you are not you and won’t accept you for what you wanna be. Just take it easy. One very useful thing you can start doing is to have a cause for which to fight for. This will draw all your attention to and will bring people close to you. For me, if people are too different from me then I probably won’t be accepted, but those having the same ideals as me love and respect me, as I love and respect them too.

Stop thinking like that, to be accepted IS NOT your No1 concern, especially those zodiacs can totally transform you to a different person if you believe in their readings. I don’t think you’re like that at all.

Just celect a cause and become what you are if you’re not already it, don’t follow what those readings say you have to be. Find your own path in life.

COME ON, THE STARS CANNOT DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY! GO OUT THERE AND PROVE THEM WRONG!!!

Best of luck :)

]]> By: ladyhawkb52 http://www.thewordishope.com/is-there-any-hope-for-a-cancer-to-be-less-manipulative-i-am-cancer-help-i-only-manipulate-bc-im-afraid/comment-page-1/#comment-1734 ladyhawkb52 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 14:18:34 +0000 http://www.thewordishope.com/is-there-any-hope-for-a-cancer-to-be-less-manipulative-i-am-cancer-help-i-only-manipulate-bc-im-afraid/#comment-1734 It's important for anyone to be loved and accepted. We're all seeking that, even when we don't realize it. :-) From what you wrote, I feel like you manipulate, not only because you're afraid of the rejection/disappointment, but you're insecure. You have to be in control, or you don't feel safe. Am I right? If you want to change this, then be yourself. Be true to yourself. Accept the unaccepting, and love the unloving. Yes there is hope. You have to take control of yourself...not others by manipulating them. Take little steps, and those little steps will turn into bigger steps and you'll come to see a change. But it has to come from you. No one can do it for you ok. Try not to automatically assume the worst, which most people have a bad habit of doing, and take little steps each time you feel like you want to, and grab onto that positive energy and override that force. You can do it. It won't happen over night, but it can happen. Make it happen. :-) It’s important for anyone to be loved and accepted. We’re all seeking that, even when we don’t realize it. :-)
From what you wrote, I feel like you manipulate, not only because you’re afraid of the rejection/disappointment, but you’re insecure. You have to be in control, or you don’t feel safe. Am I right? If you want to change this, then be yourself. Be true to yourself. Accept the unaccepting, and love the unloving. Yes there is hope. You have to take control of yourself…not others by manipulating them. Take little steps, and those little steps will turn into bigger steps and you’ll come to see a change. But it has to come from you. No one can do it for you ok. Try not to automatically assume the worst, which most people have a bad habit of doing, and take little steps each time you feel like you want to, and grab onto that positive energy and override that force. You can do it. It won’t happen over night, but it can happen. Make it happen. :-)

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